When I’m invited to a gathering, I always try to bring a gift that reflects the host’s personality or interests. To me, it’s a simple way of saying, I see you, and I appreciate you for welcoming me into your space. Of course, if I’m attending as the guest of a guest, I tend to stick with something safe and elegant—like a seasonal bouquet or a beautifully packaged candle. But if the host is known to have a soft spot for wine, champagne, or cocktails, then the gift list suddenly gets much more exciting.
The obvious choice is, of course, alcohol—but that’s just the starting point. The most memorable gifts are the ones that go beyond the bottle, whether it’s something practical, indulgent, or simply fun. To spark some inspiration, I’ve rounded up a list of elegant and creative gifts for the host or hostess who adores wine and spirits. These are guaranteed crowd-pleasers that show thoughtfulness while elevating any home bar.
1. A Sleek Whiskey Decanter Set
You can never have too many decanters—especially if your host is a true spirits enthusiast. A well-designed decanter not only elevates the drinking experience but also doubles as decor for a home bar or dining room shelf. The Linus Decanter Set from Nordstrom is one of my personal favorites: modern, versatile, and effortlessly chic. It’s the type of gift that will fit seamlessly into any aesthetic while becoming a staple for years to come.
2. Statement Ice Molds
If your host loves sipping whiskey or tequila neat, they’ll appreciate a way to enjoy their favorite pour without sacrificing flavor. That’s where oversized ice molds come in. The Corkcicle Wedge and Original Ball Whiskey Sphere are two options that create slow-melting, solid ice—perfect for keeping spirits cool without watering them down. I keep a steady supply of these in my freezer for parties, and they’ve become a quiet luxury I can’t live without.
3. A Premium Bottle with a Personal Touch
There’s nothing quite like gifting a bottle of something extraordinary. For formal dinners or high-end soirées, Johnnie Walker Blue Label is a classic, timeless option. Yes, it’s a splurge, but it’s also a statement piece that sets the tone for the evening. For an added layer of thoughtfulness, consider having the bottle engraved with a monogram or a personalized message through services like Reserve Bar. A little customization transforms a luxury spirit into a keepsake.
4. Wine Pearls for the Aficionado
Wine pearls are one of those ingenious little inventions that make you wonder how you ever lived without them. These stainless-steel pearls can be chilled in the freezer, then dropped into a glass to keep wines at the perfect temperature without dilution. I love them for red wines that benefit from a light chill, or for keeping whites and champagnes extra crisp. A set or two makes for a unique, elegant gift that a wine lover will reach for again and again.
5. A Stylish Ice Bucket
An ice bucket is often overlooked until it’s needed—and then it becomes indispensable. I like having a few different styles at home, but one of the most practical options I’ve found is the Mark & Graham Tritan Ice Bucket. Affordable at around $35, it’s durable and sleek, and you can even add a monogram for a personal touch. It’s the kind of understated gift that quickly proves its value during dinner parties and celebrations.
6. A Splurge-Worthy Champagne
Champagne never goes out of style, and while I adore staples like Veuve Clicquot and Moët et Chandon, I’ve been branching out lately into lesser-known but equally luxurious labels. Ruinart’s Blanc de Blancs Brut has become a new favorite. Crafted entirely from Chardonnay grapes, it’s rich, elegant, and a little unexpected. At around $80, it’s not something most guests will think to bring—which makes it all the more special as a gift.
7. A Practical Sparkling Wine Stopper
For a more budget-friendly option, a sparkling wine stopper makes an excellent gift. I personally swear by the Le Creuset Sparkling Wine Stopper—it keeps unfinished bottles of champagne or prosecco fresh and fizzy, sparing the heartbreak of wasted bubbles. At around $40, it’s a thoughtful and highly functional gift that every champagne lover will appreciate.
8. A DIY Cocktail Kit
If your host loves experimenting with flavors, a DIY cocktail kit can be pure joy. Craft bitters kits, in particular, are a favorite of mine—they give cocktail enthusiasts a chance to play mixologist and create their own signature blends. In cities with vibrant cocktail cultures (like New York), bartenders often make their own bitters, so gifting a kit allows your host to bring a slice of that artistry home. It’s part activity, part indulgence, and entirely memorable.
9. Luxury Candle Sets
When in doubt—or if you’re looking for a safe, universally appreciated gift—you can’t go wrong with a beautifully curated candle set. Jo Malone and Diptyque are my go-to brands, offering a mix of scents that can be layered or enjoyed individually. The added bonus? Once the candles burn out, the jars can be repurposed for chic little storage containers. It’s a gift that keeps on giving long after the flame goes out.
Final Thoughts
Choosing the right host or hostess gift doesn’t have to feel overwhelming. The key is to strike a balance between thoughtful, practical, and personal. Whether it’s a sleek decanter, a set of wine pearls, or a luxe bottle of champagne, the best gifts are the ones that feel intentional and elevate your host’s experience of the things they already love. Wrap it beautifully, tuck in a handwritten card, and you’ll be remembered long after the last glass has been poured.
